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Are You a Stressed Mom? 7 Easy Ways to Find Relief (you need these!)

October 20, 2015 by Mary Leave a Comment

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If you’re a stressed mom, it’s particularly challenging to find relief. Your little people need you 24/7!

I’ve been there – in desperate need of a break, yet unable to get one. That’s why we have to make the most of the time we have.

No matter how demanding your life is, you MUST find time to de-stress for your mental and physical health.

If you classify yourself as a stressed mom, you're in the right place! Let's look at why many moms are chronically stressed, plus 7 simple stress relief solutions! (plus the best bible verse for stress, too!) #stressmanagement #stressrelief #stressedmom

Why are Moms So Stressed?

Today, moms are expected to meet higher expectations than ever before in our society. Here are just a few of the things we are expected to do as moms in today’s world:

  • Spend quality time with our kids and “enjoy every moment“
  • Feed our kids healthy food as much as possible
  • Be informed on health issues like vaccinations
  • Teach our children about God and help them grow in faith (we really should prioritize this one)
  • Be involved in our kid’s extracurricular activities
  • Be involved in our community and church events
  • Contribute to the household income
  • Be an amazing, supportive wife
  • Keep our homes clean and tidy
  • Parent in a loving, yet firm way

The sad reality is, if we pay attention to people’s standards, we always have something to feel stressed or guilty about. We will never be enough in the world’s eyes. That’s why we have to listen to God’s standards instead!

The image below totally illustrates how much pressure moms experience today. I don’t know who the original image belongs to – if you do, please contact me and I would love to credit them. This is all too true.

A list of all the reasons we feel pressure as stressed moms.

It’s no wonder that moms today are feeling stressed, burnt-out, overwhelmed, and pressured!

A Stress-Relieving Bible Verse for Moms

Moms, here’s the thing. It doesn’t matter what exceptions the world places on you. 

The things God requires of you are actually fairly simple and reasonable. Take a moment and meditate on this bible verse for stress relief:

He has told you, O man, what is good; and what does the Lord require of you but to do justice, and to love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God?

Micah 6:8

As long as you’re doing your best to face each day with kindness, treating others fairly, and walking with the Lord – you are meeting HIS expectations. And that’s truly all that matters.

What a relief!

Related post: Read This When You Feel Unappreciated as a Mom

7 Easy Ways for Stressed Moms to Find Relief

Now that we’ve dealt with emotional stress by putting all our “expectations” in God’s hands (and not listening to the world), we’re breathing easier.

But let’s take our stress-relief journey even deeper and explore 7 simple ideas for getting rid of that built-up physical stress.

1. Take regular breaks

Mama, I know you love your kids. It’s hard to be away from them. But the thing is, you NEED time away to recharge your batteries. You’ll be a better, happier mom when you prioritize break time.

Whatever that means to you – taking a solo daily walk, squeezing in a kid-free shopping session, or paying for a sitter so you can have date night. These moments aren’t luxuries – they’re necessities.

When my first baby went to Kindergarten, it was a tough transition. But here’s the thing: that routine, that time away from each other, did us both good. 

A child running. It's necessary to take kid-free breaks as stressed moms.

When he gets home from school every day, it’s a sweet reunion – we are so happy to see each other! And I think our relationship is even better because we are intentional with the time we do have. Here are some ways we make that time special.

2. Prioritize Sleep

This is especially important for moms of babies and toddlers who aren’t getting as much sleep as they need.

I know, I know, it’s easy for me to say “get more sleep.” It’s much harder to actually do it! This is where you need to call in reinforcements, take turns with your spouse on night duty, or even sleep during the day if necessary.

It’s so tempting to stay up late so you can enjoy your “alone time.” This is one of my biggest challenges – I’m a total night owl and I love watching Netflix and browsing Facebook late at night. Here’s why us mamas need to stay up late sometimes.

But if you’re feeling particularly stressed, it’s wise to choose sleep first. When you make sleep as important as meal times, you’ll feel happier, less stressed and better equipped to care for your littles. Here’s the ultimate guide to getting the best night’s sleep ever.

3. Try yoga

I like to fancy myself a yogi, even though I’m sure many of the poses I try make me look hysterical.

In fact, I have a distinct memory of my college roommates and I trying yoga and pilates together, and collapsing in a heap of laughter on the floor over how hilarious we looked. (BTW – laughter is a great stress-reliever, too!)

Whether you’re an experienced yogi or a newbie, it’s proven that yoga helps lower stress levels. It always makes me feel better.

Looking for the perfect at-home instructor? I can’t recommend Yoga with Adriene enough – she has yoga videos for every fitness level, and her sense of ease and humor is contagious.

4. Find your happy place

Why should you have a special happy place?

It gives you something to look forward to at then end of a long day. Even if you’ve been hard pressed on every side, it gives you something positive to look forward to – even on the bleakest of days. This will boost your mental outlook and reduce your stress!

What makes for a good happy place?

Anywhere that makes you feel relaxed and at peace, and that you can incorporate into your routine to visit often. Whether it be the top of a hill on a solo walk, a favorite coffee shop, or a special nook in your home – find somewhere that makes you smile and commit to meeting yourself there weekly or more often, if possible.

For me, it’s bath time. (See the heart in the tub photo?) Nothing is more relaxing than sinking into my deep tub full of warm bubbly peace. 

Here are some things that help make this my happy place:

  • Reading. The bath is the one place where I can relax and usually get a good 30 minutes of reading in. Most of the time, my hubby watches the boys so I can take my time.
  • Decor – For Christmas, Richard got me an elaborate timepiece to “pretty up” the space. He said it represents taking my time to enjoy the experience – no rushing allowed! I also enjoy hanging beautiful, meaningful pieces of artwork in this room to make it special.

So – find your happy place and commit to meeting yourself there regularly!

5. Feed your temple

A healthy smoothie to feed your body well for stress relief!

I’ve covered this topic pretty extensively on the blog, and if you’ve spent much time here you know how passionate I am about good nutrition. If your body has everything it needs nutrition-wise, you’ll handle stress SO much better! Here are some great resources on this topic:

  • Top 10 Kitchen Hacks for Healthy Eating
  • Stop Cutting Out These 3 Food Groups
  • Real Food Swaps for Junk Food Snacks

6. Rely on your husband

You may already be really good at this, but I know a lot of women who “feel bad” asking their husband to help too often, especially if they shoulder most of the work outside the home.

But, even if you’re a stay-at-home-mom, you’re working full time also. It’s okay to rely on his help and support with the kids so you can take breaks and get some much-needed sleep.

7. Ask for help

We need each other – mom friends – in this journey of motherhood. None of us can do it alone. Sounds cliche, but it truly does take a village.

Why are we so hesitant to ask for help? Admittedly, I struggle with this BIG TIME. I rarely ask for help because I’m afraid I’ll be bothering someone, or worse – because I’m afraid to be viewed as weak.

Mamas, sometimes asking for help is the strongest thing you can do! And so crucial to reduce your stress levels.

Related post: How To Love Yourself

Mama, how do you keep your stress levels in check? I’d love to hear your wisdom in the comments below!

With Joy,
 

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If you classify yourself as a stressed mom, you're in the right place! Let's look at why many moms are chronically stressed, plus 7 simple stress relief solutions! (plus the best bible verse for stress, too!) #stressmanagement #stressrelief #stressedmom #Christian
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About Mary

Mary is a minister's wife, mom of two boys, and former missionary to Scotland. She’s also the creator of Healthy Christian Home, where she points to God's spiritual and physical nourishment through the natural world He has created. In her free time, you can find her with a cup of hot tea and a stack of books -- or watching a new BBC series.

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